Taking a Moment: Listening, Connecting, and Caring
- debbiebridgen
- Sep 10
- 2 min read
Suicide prevention is not something we should speak of only on designated days—it’s something we need to talk about more, and weave into our everyday lives. Today offers us a chance to pause and reflect on how we can look after others and ourselves.
In a world where it’s all too easy to get distracted by the constant pull of our devices, learning when to step away matters. Being present in a conversation, whether with a loved one or a stranger, gives us the chance to notice when someone might need support—and also reminds us that we matter to each other. Even small moments of undivided attention can help someone feel truly seen.
But it’s worth remembering that not all online interaction is negative. If you’re feeling isolated, digital spaces can provide connection and support when face-to-face contact isn’t possible. Social media communities, peer groups, and professional services can help reduce loneliness and remind us we’re not alone. Used with care, technology can be a bridge rather than a barrier.
At the heart of it all is the need to feel heard. Connection doesn’t always come in big gestures—it might be a quick chat at the bus stop, five minutes of kindness in the supermarket, or a friend who listens without distraction. These small acts can make a world of difference. Without them, feelings of isolation can deepen; with them, we rediscover belonging.
So today, take a moment for yourself. Put the device down when you can. Notice the people around you. Offer kindness where it feels right, and allow yourself to receive it too. Sometimes, it’s the smallest gestures of presence that carry the greatest weight.
If You Need Support
If you’re struggling, please know you are not alone. Help is available right now:
Samaritans – Call 116 123 (free, 24/7) or email jo@samaritans.org
Mind – Call 0300 123 3393 or text 86463
Papyrus (for under 35s) – Call 0800 068 4141, text 07860 039967, or email pat@papyrus-uk.org
Shout – Text 85258 for free, confidential support, 24/7
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, always call 999.


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